학술논문

Reclaiming the Mother‐daughter Relationship after Sexual Abuse
Document Type
Article
Source
The Australian and New Zealand Journal of Family Therapy; December 1997, Vol. 18 Issue: 4 p194-202, 9p
Subject
Language
ISSN
0814723X; 14678438
Abstract
This paper seeks to provide direction to therapists working with mothers and daughters after a disclosure of father‐daughter sexual abuse. The importance of the mother's belief in and support for the child's recovery is highlighted, as are some of the cultural assumptions about mothers and daughters which negatively impact on the relationship. Despite paying lip service to offender responsibility, there continues to be a culture of mother blaming in the child sexual abuse and family therapy literature on incest. Current research findings challenge some of the prevalent myths about mothers’ responses to their children's disclosures. Few clinical sources have addressed this issue, and therapists who reject the mother blaming literature are therefore left with little guidance as to how to work more effectively with mothers and daughters. Consequently they may unwittingly further undermine the relationship. Work with mothers and daughters as they recover from intrafamilial sexual abuse is discussed, and key therapeutic themes and guidelines for practice presented. We explore the significant theme of the rebuilding of trust between mothers and daughters and facilitate a process whereby the woman is able to bear witness to and acknowledge the trauma experienced by her daughter.