학술논문
Divorced mothers' self-perception of their divorce-related communication with their children.
Document Type
Article
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Subject
*COMMUNICATION methodology
*AGE distribution
*CONFLICT management
*DENIAL (Psychology)
*DIVORCE
*FATHER-child relationship
*MOTHER-child relationship
*MOTIVATION (Psychology)
*STATISTICAL sampling
*SELF-disclosure
*QUALITATIVE research
*WELL-being
*NARRATIVES
*THEMATIC analysis
*ATTITUDES of mothers
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ISSN
1356-7500
Abstract
ABSTRACT This is a qualitative study of divorce-related communication between mothers and children, as recounted by 20 Jewish Israeli mothers. We adopt the communication privacy management theory, focusing on mothers' subjective experiences of communication, their management of dialectic tension between concealment and disclosure - namely, not only what mothers choose to disclose to and hide from their children, but also the feelings, concerns and perceptions that drove their communication. The mothers' reports convey the challenges and dilemmas they faced when communicating with their children about their divorce and its repercussions; the main one being their obligation to maintain a good father image and their wish to preserve a strong maternal figure. The 'child's well-being' was the dominant criterion in the mothers' decision to reveal or conceal divorce-related information. Clinical suggestions are made. [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR]